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PolyDex

fugg around & find out

Ab
2 min readJan 28, 2023

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PolyDex is an index of games designed to expose sexual dynamix! Play with people you plan to get to know. Play with intents/have fun. Play ethically and/or vulnerably. Play by explicitly shared rules ::

  1. Pre-negotiate boundaries.
  2. Write down safe words where you can see them.
  3. Select Game.
  4. Pre-Care.
  • Card Game : each person pulls 1 card. whoever pulls the highest card, may request a service.
  • Gear Shift : “how much do you want to drive?” — when asked, you may answer with:
if “Park”
then “Im not in the mood”

if “Reverse”
then “Im feeling the mood wane”

if “Neutral”
then “Im down for whatchu down for”

if “Drive”
then “I want to make sex with yim uoe”
  • % Battery : “how energize do you feel to do hard things?” — when asked, you may respond:
if 0%
then “im off”

if 1%-10%
then “im about done”

if 11%-20%
then “i should prolly shleep, but im down”

if 21%-50%
then “okay, okay”

if 51%-70%
then “im feeling good”

if 71%-98%
then “say less”

if 100%
then

  • Current Shix : “Current Shix” — when asked, you may share an image of where you are currently
  • FEXT : sext :: sext : text
  • Kudos : celebrate someone by speaking a compliment onto their knuckles
  • Listen Longer : when you feel a ping or pang of emotion hearing something from your partner; don’t speak, listen more, and see where the feelings go.
  • SHOW WAY : for seven days, 1 partner has to vocalize whenever they want physical contact, verbal affirmation, small gifts, love requested explicitly.
  • Call Back : over a deliberately prolonged period of time, reference a single joke multiple times in multiple contexts

5. Play Game.

6. Reward the winner.

7. Post-Care.

E8it.

byyyyyyyeeeeeeeeeeee

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